How a jerky founder learned to lead with emotional intelligence

R. Michael Anderson, Radiant Technologies, Bootstrapping, Sell Your Business

Today’s guest says that at one point in his life, he was a real ass. He says he was pushy and insistent on his approach until he discovered a better way.

I initially invited him here just to talk about his business but I had no idea he’d be open to talking about that and the issues he had with his  cofounder.

To me, the emotional intelligence part of his story is the most interesting and what I want to get into here.

R. Michael Anderson is the founder of Radiant Technologies, which was an ERP reseller.

R. Michael Anderson

Radiant Technologies

R. Michael Anderson is the founder of Radiant Technologies, which was an ERP reseller.

Andrew: Hey, everyone. My name is Andrew Warner. I’m the founder of Mixergy.

And I’ve wanted to be an entrepreneur since I was a kid. In fact, my parents didn’t have cable, but somehow we ended up getting junkie shows like “The Jeffersons.” And I loved it because George Jefferson was an entrepreneur who built himself up, lived in the penthouse apartment and wasn’t afraid to speak his mind, including slamming the door in the faces of people who he disagreed with or he didn’t want to waste his time with. To me, that kind of attitude was what led to success.

That’s what I learned, not just from “The Jeffersons,” which is a silly little TV show, but from movies, from often a lot of times from books, biographies of my heroes. They would always reveal like the negative side of business and I would think, “All right, that’s the truth. You have to be that kind of aggressive person.” And I tried...

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